I was interested to find this post by Craig Adams, looking at some quotes from John Wesley on the continuation of the gifts. I find myself in general agreement with what Wesley says here. The extraordinary gifts are possible, but not commonplace, nor are they required. The primary evidence of the Spirit is the sanctification of life, not some miraculous activity.
Of course, in discerning the evidence of the Spirit through sanctification, one must always be careful of judgment (James 4:11-12).
I’d connect this to what I wrote earlier on Speaking in Tongues and a Prayer Language.